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2020-08-16 02:26:22 UTC
so I belong to a couple of FB groups related to Barry Manilow. They're a fun diversion, most of the members seem nice, and a couple people seem interesting, in a good way. I'm sure other people here follow the same FB groups.
Anyway one FB member is a very talented artist. She paints portraits of Mr M which she sells to private clients and also has donated some of her paintings to raise money for the MMP.
Evidently there was some drama involved with the charity donation of her paintings (of course there was.....it's Barry Manilow fans) but I don't know the details and don't care to know....what is it my business? But she attracted a degree of attention in Manilowland as a result of her art and her connection to the MMP.
So the presenting problem is someone's been reporting all of her FB posts, ALL of them - and all are completely innocuous posts - to FB and as a result her posts get deleted and she gets suspended from posting for periods of time. Since her posts are NBD, whoever is reporting her is doing so to be mean and vindictive for some reason. Evidently FB doesn't look at the reported posts' content, FB just deletes them. She's finding this quite distressing and as a result she's leaving FB.
Similarly, things got out of hand right here at alt.fan when a couple people went off on me. Like my FB friend, I considered leaving this group as a result.
And far more seriously, one of our members here shared that she was targeted by someone who contacted her supervisor at her job. The person making allegations against her seemed to have intentions of causing real harm.
It would seem there's a subset of Manilow fans who are bullies and vindictive. If anyone separates themselves from the pack in any way, these people go in for the kill. Their motivation for doing so is unclear, probably known only to them.
I don't belong to any other fan groups so have no basis for comparison, but I wonder if this is true in other fandoms, or if it is a phenomenon unique to this one.
I wonder, is there a greater number of bullies and crazies in Manilowland than one would expect, in terms of statistical probability? And if so, why?
From attending shows I've observed some weird fans (shout out to "Tampa Drunk Barbie") and the streamer-covered fans, and the rush-up-to-the-stage fans, and the "look-Barry-I'm-wearing-your-face-on-my-shirt-for-some-reason" fans but at least these people sort of keep to themselves.
Patricia Butler touched on crazy fans in her book, but again, those fans seemed to stay in their own little worlds rather than engage with others.
As far as fans targeting other fans, that seems to be an online thing. I wonder how many fans have abandoned their online presence as a result of being bullied or targeted in some way?
Thoughts and opinions?
Best,
Annie
Anyway one FB member is a very talented artist. She paints portraits of Mr M which she sells to private clients and also has donated some of her paintings to raise money for the MMP.
Evidently there was some drama involved with the charity donation of her paintings (of course there was.....it's Barry Manilow fans) but I don't know the details and don't care to know....what is it my business? But she attracted a degree of attention in Manilowland as a result of her art and her connection to the MMP.
So the presenting problem is someone's been reporting all of her FB posts, ALL of them - and all are completely innocuous posts - to FB and as a result her posts get deleted and she gets suspended from posting for periods of time. Since her posts are NBD, whoever is reporting her is doing so to be mean and vindictive for some reason. Evidently FB doesn't look at the reported posts' content, FB just deletes them. She's finding this quite distressing and as a result she's leaving FB.
Similarly, things got out of hand right here at alt.fan when a couple people went off on me. Like my FB friend, I considered leaving this group as a result.
And far more seriously, one of our members here shared that she was targeted by someone who contacted her supervisor at her job. The person making allegations against her seemed to have intentions of causing real harm.
It would seem there's a subset of Manilow fans who are bullies and vindictive. If anyone separates themselves from the pack in any way, these people go in for the kill. Their motivation for doing so is unclear, probably known only to them.
I don't belong to any other fan groups so have no basis for comparison, but I wonder if this is true in other fandoms, or if it is a phenomenon unique to this one.
I wonder, is there a greater number of bullies and crazies in Manilowland than one would expect, in terms of statistical probability? And if so, why?
From attending shows I've observed some weird fans (shout out to "Tampa Drunk Barbie") and the streamer-covered fans, and the rush-up-to-the-stage fans, and the "look-Barry-I'm-wearing-your-face-on-my-shirt-for-some-reason" fans but at least these people sort of keep to themselves.
Patricia Butler touched on crazy fans in her book, but again, those fans seemed to stay in their own little worlds rather than engage with others.
As far as fans targeting other fans, that seems to be an online thing. I wonder how many fans have abandoned their online presence as a result of being bullied or targeted in some way?
Thoughts and opinions?
Best,
Annie